When Marilyn Monroe was asked what she wore to bed, she is said to have replied, “Why Chanel No.5, of course.” Dosing up before going to bed is actually pretty common and not necessarily just as a prelude to seduction. There is a solid camp of perfumistas out there who who apply fragrance before bed as part of their ritual to prepare for a good night’s sleep. This comes after brushing teeth, cleansing face, applying a good night moisturizer (I’m in love with Amore Pacific!) and slipping into something comfy.


I often apply a spritz or dab of perfume as a way to unwind on the nights when I don’t shower right before bed, which is most of the time. Usually I alternate between a spritz on my pillowcase or one of my Natori nightgowns and my actual skin. I gravitate towards soft and comforting scents to bring about a calming feel-good effect on me. It doesn’t need to be something I’ve worn earlier in the day although often it is.


Sure I’ve made some mistakes along the way. The biggest lesson I’ve learned is to take it easy and to say “absolutely not” to some of the large and in charge scents that are suitable for other occasions. Trust me, you may be able to sleep wearing Shalimar  but you’ll be dreaming of gremlins.


Here are some scent nightcaps that I’ve been reaching for lately, in no special order:


  • Lys 41 by Le Labo– A low-key fave with an incredible Madagascar vanilla note. It’s pure serenity once the tuberose fades and all I’m smelling is cozy vanilla and gentle musk, along with pale woods.


  • James by Rosie Jane– With comforting notes of fig and amber combined with delicate gardenia, this is the perfect antidote to a stressful day. This peaceful and zen-like scent magically lulls my eyes to slumber even after a day when everything seems to go wrong.


  •  Knot by Bottega Veneta – A creamy, smooth white floral with orange blossom in abundance, Knot brings to mind a European holiday or a gorgeous silk scarf. The body cream is amazing too and sometimes I’ll do that instead. Never both at night.


  • Child by Susan D. Owens – My signature scent about 10 years ago, I love the beachy, bohemian vibe and the intoxicating jasmine and gardenia notes. It has this lighter-than-air quality which is really uplifting.


  • Eau Rose by Diptyque – An absolutely stunning rose scent that is a little old-fashioned and not at all emotionally demanding. Makes me feel almost drunk on roses.


  • Flower Market by Maison Martin Margiela –  A  fragrant twilight walk reminiscent of springtime in Paris. I love the way the oak moss and crushed leaves add a green factor so the wonderful jasmine, tuberose and rose notes don’t overwhelm.


  • Honeysuckle by Fresh – Such a lovely, pretty and uncomplicated scent that brings me back to my childhood. Nostalgia is a powerful force and few perfumes are as spot on with honeysuckle.


There’s no question that opening the window at night to a fragrant garden or listening to the sound of ocean waves crashing on the beach is even better than any of these. But I’m in New York where it is hot and humid most of the  the summer and I live nowhere near a beach.  The only sounds I hear when I open my window are cicadas which isn’t the worst thing to hear in this crazy world we’re living in but not exactly soothing either.


Please share with me your favorite fragrances that help you get those Zzzzs and bring on sweet dreams for you. I’d love to hear!


Until the next time,


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  1. Dave says:

    Hey there,

    I also have a deep thing for wearing my fragrance to bed. It has nothing to do with seduction either. I just feel in the zone covered with the sweet smell.

    I have used the other perfumes except for Flower Market by Maison Martin Margiela. This is the one I will be trying out this time. Thanks a lot for the information.

    • Erica says:

      Hey back Dave,

      Flower Market is one of my favorite light and ultra feminine scents. I find it relaxes me when worn to bed but it’s lovely during the daytime too.



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